Kindness

I've always wondered why people can be abuse and unkind to the people they claim to love. The thing is, one cannot give what they don't have, so it is hard to be kind to others if you don't have kindness for yourself. Most people really speak to others the same way they speak to themselves.

If you're dealing with unkind people, try not to judge because we never know why people are the way they are and what they might have gone through.
Not judging and trying to understand and empathize doesn't mean you have to stick around and get hurt either. It is not selfish to chose yourself first and get some distance if you feel you need it.
The more time you spend hearing negative words the more likely you are let them sink in.

If you're not really able to distance yourself from negative and unkind people, try to be more mindful of your thoughts. Watch what you say to yourself and how you talk and react to others. Try to spend more time around positive people. Make sure you don't subconsciously become unkind.
My dad once told me: You can always learn something from others, regardless of whether you like them or not. Try to focus on what you can learn from these people.

Sometimes you'd meet unkind people that would try and make you feel like you are the problem, that is NOT true. Do not change yourself for anybody.
Don't be tempted to be unkind back and give people a taste of their medicine. When you know better, you do better.

Here are a few ways you can be Kind to Yourself

Treat yourself to a nice bath, a spa, a weekend away...

Practice positive affirmation.

Read a nice book.

Meditate. Get in touch with yourself.

Make some time for your hobbies.

Be Kind towards others. Doing good will make you feel good.


Here are a few ways you can be Kind to Others

Give someone a meaningful compliment.

Leave a lovely note for your partner to find.

Write an appreciation letter to a friend.

Buy coffee/juice/water/a sandwich for a colleague.

Donate your used books.

Volunteer at a local shelter.

Remember promote what you like instead of bashing what you hate. I hope you had a good Wednesday. If you have any kindness tips please share in the comment section.

xo

168 comments

  1. Oh babe, I found a lot about myself while reading your post, sometimes I still don't understand how some people can be so mean with others, I think we will never know for sure.
    But being kind with yourself and with others just keep me calm about myself, loved your tips, we need to enjoy being in our own company!

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    1. Glad you enjoyed the post Jen. Like you said there is always that good feeling when you chose to be kind to yourself and to others.
      Have a great day dear :)
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  2. i loved this post so much sauniya, love everything you have said, on point!!! sometimes silence is the best thing you can do to people like that
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    1. Thank you Kerona and you're right, sometimes it is best to ignore unkind people :)
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  3. Love this post!!!

    I really think that practicing kindness to myself is the key to atract kind people to my life. Also I know that if I'm kind, tolerant and patient with myself it would be a lot easier not to judge the others.

    Hope you had a great wednesday!

    Andrea.

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    1. Yes i completely agree with you. Have a great day Andrea :)
      xo

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  4. This is such an inspiring post. Something which we have heard many times but need to be reminded always. Thank you very much for sharing these amazing life saver tips.

    xoxo Ashon
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  6. I find it really hard to deal with unkind people as I tend not to understand their attitude. But knowing that they might have some psychological problems helps me.
    Have a nice day

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    1. It can be hard dealing with unkind people but just make sure you do not become one.
      Have a wonderful day dear :)
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  7. This is very true! Sometimes people are horrible to each other because they are jealous...

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    1. Jealousy in a way still comes from lack of kindness to self. People tend to envy others because they fail to appreciate themselves.
      Thank you for your comment Alice :) xo

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  8. You made my day, Saunya! Great thoughts about kindness!
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  9. I really loved that post dear,
    I wish you a blessed day! Xx
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  10. Love this post so much) It's so sweet)

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  11. I really love these type of posts you do! They always make me feel more positive about life, and I would agree I can never understand people being un-kind to those they love, when people aren't nice to me I always try to not "give them a taste of their own medicine" and still remain the person I am without having to stoop to that level, I like the idea of meditating aswel. I won't go into it as I'm writing my next post on something similar ha

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    1. I can;t wait to read your post then, meditation is bliss :)
      xo

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  12. Lovely words about kindness and well written post!!!
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  13. kindness is so much required these days.. people are so mean to each other

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  14. This is a lovely and inspiring post. I agree that you shouldn't change yourself for others.

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  15. Loved reading this Sauniya. I agree with you totally. Sometimes it's so tempting to be unkind back when someone says something mean to me. But as you said people go through things (of course that's not a reason to be unkind but it is understandable) so it's just better to stay away from the person . Great post! xx
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    1. Yes Demi. We have to do better. Thank you :)
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  16. I love your idea about kindness. I love also your way to stay positive and be kind.
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  17. This is such a thoughful post!! Lovly of you to share such positive thoughts! :)

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  18. Wow, I love the "promote what you like instead of bashing what you hate" line. So insightful. Love this post. xx
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    1. Thank you Olaa, I try to keep that one in mind a lot when I'm in negative situations :) ox

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  19. This is such a lovely post. Thank you for sharing your positive thoughts on kindness!

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  20. Dear Sauniya,
    your words are always so true! I love to read your posts because with every post you remind me who and what I really want to be and to focus on this.
    You are totally right. We can never change someone but we can change ourself and therefore we should practice good and positive thoughts however how difficult it seems to be.
    I wish you a wonderful weekend my friend and I send you a lot of love and happiness :-*
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  21. I really love this post! It`s all I want to achieve in future and I`m working on for some time now. I think that best way to achieve kindness and share the love and positive emotions is to become aware of your own problems and flaws, accept yourself and then work on them to make them virtues. Also, I remind my self every day that I need to be kind to someone I don`t know, because kindness can spread around, you just need to start it. Do something nice to someone unknown and that person will feel loved and want to share the love and kindness with others.
    Sending you lots of love and hugs! xoxo
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    1. You said it so well dear, I couldn't agree more.
      Thank you and Have a great rest of the week Vesna :)
      xo

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  22. This is a very inspiring post sweetheart. Thanks for share your amazing advices with us that is really sweet and sometimes I need a post like this.
    xx

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  23. Such nice words! I hope you have a great weekend Sauniya x
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  24. Being mindful of your own thoughts is great advice.

    Amy Ann
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  25. I love how you worded this post, it's such an important thing to remember, that we don't know why people are acting the way they are. Kindness is one of the most important things in the world, and I'm really glad I stumbled across this today <3

    Love,

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  26. Thanks a lot :D

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  27. I really enjoyed reading this post. Your words made me think about myself, and how I am. Thank you for sharing this inspirational article. Have a nice day!
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    1. THank you Dear. Have a great rest of the weel :)
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  28. Wonderful post! There should be more kindness in the world for sure.
    Hope you have a lovely weekend!
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  29. I'm all about kindness. So every day I try to spread kindness. I also try not to judge if someone is rude. People have their moments and it is possible I caught them at the wrong moment.

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    1. Yes, very true. Thank you Rach :)
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  30. Definitely a good reminder of how we should surround ourselves with more kindness. A very inspirational and positive post! <3

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  31. Excellent message, self love has to come first!
    Happy Saturday,
    Annie
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  32. Lovely post! If we all were kind, it will solve millions problems in the world!
    Kisses <3

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  33. These are all great, I am trying to be more positive
    xo
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  34. This is a really thought provoking post Sauniya! I think sometimes we can forget to make an effort to be kind, assuming that it is a natural occurrence when it's often not. It can also be really hard to be kind to someone who is not to you, that's definitely my struggle!

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    1. Yes it is though indeed. When I encounter those people I try to at least not reciprocate the same behavior if it's too hard to be kind. :)
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  35. Amazing post!
    Have a nice week-end!
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  36. This is such a heartfelt post.. loved it.. i have a senior at work who is very mean to me because i don't speak up (stand up for myself against him). I discussed this with my partner and he said i should just reply whatever he is saying. The other day he called me 'duffer' i asked him to 'keep quiet' and continued my work. He then looked at me and continued his work. It has started working. sometimes, you have enough kindness for some people and later on you need to just put an end to it!


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    1. Sorry you have to deal with such person, we all run into them sadly. I'm glad you stood up for yourself without losing your kindness or become just like him.
      I hope it goes better at work :)
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  37. I loved reading this since I'm currently going through some things myself and it really helped me. Thanks for sharing dear, xx

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  38. it's very hard to deal with negativity and other things around. Very nice post, thank you for sharing your thoughts!

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  39. Love all the examples you give to be a better person. I would love to start volunteering again, but find it hard to take the time for it ;)
    Nati xx
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  40. Really great post!
    xoxo
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  41. What a lovely post! I really liked your be kind to yourself and other tips at the end of the post xx

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  42. So true, especially when you say about dealing with unkind people, we never know what type of hell they may be living inside.

    Amy;
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  43. Great post hun! I love how inspirational your writing is! :-)

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  44. This post is so true, thanks for sharing!

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  45. What a wonderful post!
    Have a nice new week!
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  46. Beautiful post Sauniya! Very wise words and awesome tips!
    ♥☻♥☻♥
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  47. This post hits home really hard, I have been unkind and rude to people because I have been a bitter Betty thanks to everything I have gone through in my past which makes me exude that. I have however started taking steps towards being nice and it's paying off because people are becoming nice to me in return.
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  48. Not judging is really right approach to other people, even to these who are unkind. Great ideas!

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  49. True this is such a great advice!

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  50. Such a beautiful and inspiring post! Thanks for sharing!
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  51. Thanks for sharing tips on how to be kind to yourself and not just others, people forget that, as for unkind people I just ignore them and try not to be judge cause sometimes are are going through something.

    Bernie, xx
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  52. Hi Sauniya! I really liked the message of your post about kindness. In my opinion being kind doesn't cost anything and what's the most important - we usually get kindness in return. What's more, you're right - we shouldn't judge anyone, even if she/he is rude, because we don't know why does he/she behave this way. What's more, I love your dad's advice, I'll keep it in my mind :)
    Have a lovely evening, dear :)

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  53. Totally agree with you, hun!!! I've always believed in practice kindness, even if sometimes could seem hard and unuseful!
    And what you wrote about choosing yourself first is so important as well! Being kind doesn't mean to be submissive and leave others hurt you!
    xxx
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  54. This is so true. We display to others what we do to ourselves. I also like the fact that we should promote what we want. Thanks for sharing!

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  55. Great advice! I would also add to make sure to get a good night's sleep as this also contributes to our well-being.

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  56. I really liked your dad's advice! Sometimes I get caught up in whether I like the person or not and whenever I don't I think that I can't learn anything from them, but that definitely isn't true. Also I really liked all your ways that you can be kind to others! Giving someone a meaningful compliment is my fave.

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  57. Lovely post! The quote that comes to my mind when reading this is "kill them with kindness". I believe that the best thing to fight negative people is with kindness. It's important to surround yourself with positive people and have time for yourself.

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  58. I don't understand such people at all. Great tips but ;)


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  59. Such a beautiful thoughts, I really think kindness is the hardest to give because it always comes back. I always love your post dear, feels nice to come to your blog and get inspired.

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  60. Enjoyed reading the post, so refreshing. Sometimes a person might say something that will make you sad all day. But you have to remember, people who go out of there way to make someone sad. Are the ones with problems.

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  61. So lovely post, really. Kindness is essential for a better life :)
    Loved reading this!
    xx Elisa
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  62. Hi sweetheart, this post is great. Thanks for reminding me that we always learn from others. So true.
    Kisses
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  63. Amazing post darling! So refreshing! I couldn't agree more! Thanks for sharing!
    Much love, Len
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  64. un buen post y muy bonito y la primera foto es muy bonita tambien

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  65. Always be kind, you never know what battle someone is fighting! Great words
    xx Leah

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  66. Thanks for sharing this positivity, as always! :) I think saying "Thank you" and giving away smiles is an amazing way to spread kindness :)
    Have an amazing week too!

    xx

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  67. We need more kindness in the world, for SURE. :) Great post, lady!

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  68. What a beautiful post! In times like today, we could all use a little more kindness in our lives!

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  69. Kindness is definitely something the world needs right now. This is a great post, beautiful. I agree with each point. I'm practising being nicer to myself. Sometimes I forget that I'm human and I'm allowed to make mistakes.

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  70. Wonderful and inspirational post. Kindness goes far and I think everyone should always show kindness, especially important even more today. <3
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  71. Such a lovely post with an important message, I can never understand how people are mean to others. I think the world certainly needs a dose of kindness right now <3

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  72. Nothing beats kindness. I love this post =)


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  73. I LOVE this post! It's so important to be kind to yourself because that affects the way you treat everyone around you. xx

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  74. This is such a lovely posts! I love all your posts so much, they always provide insight and make me feel better :)

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  75. This is so true and so inspiring! I love the positive message you always give away :)

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  76. It is so true - people who are happy with themselves and where they stand in life are often the kind people.

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  77. A very interesting post !!! Thank you for your comment on my blog!!! 👌👌👌💚💚💚

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  78. this blogpost is so inspiring! thanks for sharing my darling :)

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  79. I really needed to read this post babe. It is always a good reminder to not judge others attitudes and actions but rather come from an empathetic place and be curious about what may be causing them to act this way. It is definitely more human nature to be angry and judgemental when someone isn't treating you right but they must be going through some kind of hurt themselves to be acting this way. You definitely don't need to take it or put up with it but it helps to remember that people that hurt others are probably hurting themselves.

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  80. Fantastic post! It is so important to be kind! Spread love!

    Darriyan xo
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  81. It's all so true, being kind doesn't cost a thing and it is good for us and for the others... lately I have dealt with unkindness in my own family and got so, but so very hurt... but then I could easily slip into being unkind back, but on the contrary, I decided to go on being kind, because it's good for me. Everybody else criticized me saying I am being stupid, but I prefer it this way. Kindness is never ever silly, no matter how many times people say the contrary. Hope you have a very lovely day!
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  83. This is such a lovely post, kindness doesn't cost anything!

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  84. I saw a quote somewhere about how "People shouldn't have to earn kindness. They should have to earn cruelty." and your post makes me think on how true it is.

    My work involves talking to different kinds of people, undortunately. Sometimes, people are stupid, annoying, rude, and some people just rub me the wrong way. I usually try to deal with them politely/ professionally but curtly, but I am usually thinking of stabbing them with a fork in the eyes behind their backs. I think I'm not just someone who looks at the good in people. I do not have the patience to be kind to those kind of people, especially because being nice will leave me feeling exhausted and underappreciated.

    Contrary to that, I pretty much spoil people I like. ♥

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    1. I love that you spoil the people you like.
      When you think about the way those unkind people make you feel, you don't want to feel that way about yourself or make other people feel that way, so kindness is always the right choice.
      Don't let others unkindness get to you, remember it has nothing to do with you :)
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  85. What a nice and pleasant post Sauniya!!!! I think people are too much egoist, in love relations, friendships, at work....They put themselves before the others, in the wrong way....we should give more attention to people and think less to our self-interest. Regarding what you said about trying to be nice also with ourselves that's so true....I'm very fussy and only in the last time I started to enjoy more life and take more time for my hobbies...
    A big hug from Barcelona!!!!
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  86. these are such lovely words, thank you for the positive vibes! kindness takes patience and courage to work.

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  87. I love this post! Especially in a time like now, it's so important to remember kindness. I love the idea of taking small steps to show generosity. Great tips!

    Best,
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  88. Dear Sauniya, your father is definitely a wise man and I try to follow what he told you, too. I agree to everything you wrote and being kind to the own person and to others, too, is definitely an essential for me. Thanks for this touching post.
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  89. Your words are fantastic my dear
    A big hug

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  90. This is lovely, I like the idea of kindness and wish more people were like that in the world. I think your tips are spot on! I love your advice here gorgeous x http://www.bauchlefashion.com/2017/02/electric-colour.html

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  91. Its definitely important to watch that you don't become unkind when surrounding by unkind people and to also have a sense of understanding for why they might be being unkind. I love what your dad said and will definitely be keeping that in mind :)

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  92. I totally agree with you, most often than not unkind people act that way because they are probably dealing with a bigger issue themselves, but that doesn't really justify their actions. Its best to stay clear of people that put you down.
    Amazing post!

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  93. I have come to realise that anyone who is unkind to you or treats you a certain way yet claims to love you only does it because they treat themselves the same way. They dont love themselves so how can they love you... Dont judge, just treat them with kindness and no negative energy will reflect on to you :) XX

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  94. Aw I love this blog post and the meaning behind it! I always try my best to be kind, I mean it doesn't cost anything does it! I've also been practicing meditation recently x

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  95. Love the article babe, my parents always taught me to keep doing good without expecting from the other person.
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  96. Your writing is so inspirational.
    xx
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  97. This was such an interesting post, and particularly as I've never before thought about the way we treat ourselves is often the way we treat others. It's a great reason to be kinder to ourselves! :)

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  98. I really liked this post, is so inspirational. <3

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  99. I always like coming back to your blog for something for my soul!
    Kindness is a key and it's so simple
    xoxo
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  100. Love what your dad said. Really true. There's always something to learn from everyone.
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  101. Yu give a true advice :)
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  102. Very insightful. Indeed, we should promote kindness, learn it, teach it and pay it forward. :)

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  103. I love this post, your dad had some great words of wisdom for you, unkind people just drain energy and it's definitely not worth crawling down to their level at all, kindness shines through in the end lovely, keep doing you :)

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  104. I don't know how you do it, to always post amazing fun things to read. I find myself reflecting on the same things! Love your blog, keep going love!
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    1. Aww thank you so much Coco. I tend to think a lot and there is always a lot going on around me.
      I hope you have a great weekend :)
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  105. Hello dear Sauniya!

    I love this post and what you wrote about kindness. These are very wise words and I think that you are right 100%. Thank you for listing all of these tips for how to be better kind to yourself, this is a great reminder that we should all think about on a regular basis!

    Hope you are having a great day!

    Lot of greetings, Eva

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  106. Wow, what an amazing post! I agree with every word you said. :) Being kind doesn't cost anything and it makes everyone around happy.

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  107. I love your post! I agree with your father, we can always learn from others. Most people who are unkind have issues with themselves.
    Have a nice week!
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  108. Super great post, thank you for sharing
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  109. great post with so many wise words dear xx

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  110. I like this meaningful post and totally agree with you. I think we all have been kind and unkind to others because of the mood we are in at that particular time, which leads us to treat ourselves better, so we are nicer toward others.

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  111. We've all dealt with the unkind and while it gets easier to handle as we get older, it never stops stinging. These are great tips.

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  112. What an inspirational post! Good read! This is refreshing! Thank you for sharing darling! Much love, Len www.lenparent.com

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  113. I want spend my time with positive people
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  114. Your posts always make me reflect deeply and connect to the main message. My daughter has been learning a lot about kindness and people who don't treat others well/manipulate them into submission out of fear. Girl drama, but lessons worth learning. We have been talking a lot about not being mean back, being understanding but not letting that person demoralize you either. You don't have to be rude but you also have no reason to stand by that persons side. I love all of your suggestions on how to treat yourself/others, because they are simple and cost nothing. Thank you.

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  115. Having stumbled upon your blog in times when someone is being unkind to me is somewhat a co-incidence. Being treated that way is confusing because, in my knowledge, I haven't done her anything. I can't even ask her what is the reason behind because she isn't approachable in any means. At this moment, all I can do is to keep the distance she build between us.

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  116. Great post! :)

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  117. Positive people can bring and will always brain the best out of you. And sometimes even make you do things you never thought you could do.

    Unkind people are simply those who do not have kindness in them as you rightly stated above. Sure, you can't give what you don't have.

    Sometimes I wonder how people could dish out hatred and violence without feeling how bad it could lead to.

    I think you should do a post on Ungrateful people because I see unkindness and ungratefulness as having a link.

    Nice post.


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  118. I agree with your every word Sauniya. I have learned to ward off negative people, I think this is the best medicine if you love yourself. Loved so much this positive post!
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  119. Lovwly message!
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  120. Just checking how you are, sweetie, hope you are fine, full of kindness around and having a nice week! Hugs!
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  121. lovely words *-*


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  122. Such awesome tips as usual! I agree that surrounding ourselves with positive people is better than negative. There's always something to learn, whether it is improving ourselves or in other ways. It's definitely important to not bash on what we hate because that can really get annoying if all we do is complain

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  123. Nice tips and very very good thoughts Sauniya!!! Kisses from Italy and thank you for your visit,
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  124. I agree with you 100%! I try very hard to not let other people's negative attitudes affect the way I treat others. It is such a waste of time and energy. I choose to walk away if I sense negative vibes, I'm very sensitive to this. I also try to practive mindful awareness and remind myself that they must be going through some hardship, and that their attitudes are not necessarily about me, but them. Great advice!

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  125. Being mindful of our thoughts is one of the best ways to watch out for any form of negativity within us. I believe once the evil within us defeated, being kind comes naturally. Great post, Sauniya.

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  127. this is well written. thanks for sharing. out of all the things in life I've learned that being kind is the most important thing - not necessarily to benefit other people we spread kindness to, but to ourselves, our heart and soul, which bloom in the face of kindness. <3

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  128. As you have mentioned, kindness is really important! We shouldn't judge people because it's really hard knowing what they go through at that moment. Have a nice week ahead! x

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  129. Dear, I loved your words, this post is such amazing!
    Well done! Thanks for inspire us! <3



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