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Sunday Reflections..

22:45 Sauniya 100 Comments

Few things I've Learned...
You can't change people.
If does not matter how much you care about them or how much you want them to be better.
Trying to change some's behavior is like trying to workout so they can lose the weight.. It will never happen unless they actually want to change and are willing to make some effort for it. You can guide them, support them, be there for them, but you can not do the work for them.
The best thing you can do is give them some space and be there for them when they need you.

You have to let go to be free.
People will hurt you.. some even consciously. You'll be the best person you can and life will still be unfair at times. The best thing you can do for yourself in these times is let go. because holding on and spending endless time reminiscing and trying to understand would only feed the pain. The more you think about something, the bigger it becomes and the more it affects your life. 

Nothing quite happens the way we plan.
They say sometimes you have to fall before you can fly. Those moments will challenge your strength and sometimes maybe even make you doubt yourself, but when you feel like giving up remember why you started. Don' think about how hard the moment is, but focus on the lessons you can get.  

You're doing much better than you think.
Take a moment to appreciate everything that you have and  all that you are. Be proud of how far you've come and everything you have accomplished. Always be Grateful.

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100 comments:

  1. So true with every word you said, love this post
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  2. Love this post! Everything is so true!

    xx

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    1. Thank you, Have a good week too :)
      xo

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  4. Yes, people have to change itself, by its own decisions !!

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  5. Great tips.. Just what you need on a dark monday <3

    TheNormcoreRebel

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  6. Lovely and motivating post dear, thanks for sharing.

    xx
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  7. Great post dear!
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  9. I liked a lot of the post. It is very true.
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  10. hello
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    Thanks for follow me too.

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  11. Everything you wrote on this is so true. Change or anything in general cannot be imposed on anyone. They have to want it for themselves to want to be better. Your writing has moved me
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  14. These are so true :) xx

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  15. So so true, girl. Thx for sharing with us.
    xox
    Lenya
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  16. What a lovely post. Everything you've said is so true.

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  17. Great reflections. I have to constantly remind myself of the second one, as I have a tendency to hold on to things for a long time.

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  18. This is a great reminder, I completely agree and I feel like every thing happens for a reason and different people are placed in your life for a reason. Not all of them will have a permanent place in your life but when you reflect back later on in life you will realise the reason they were placed in your life. Sometimes to teach us life lessons. xxx
    Tanaka x
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  19. Learning to to be proud of myself , one of the few life lessons i've learnt . Thanks for sharing this awesome post.

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  20. So true... great post! Love those quotes!


    - Cielo
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  21. Well said dear, I agree with everything you've written.

    Have a great day! :) xx

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  23. Very inspirational post! Loved it :)
    Kiss, Mariana Dezolt
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    Love your blog. ♥
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  26. Love this post, such a refreshment. Even the last one; I am very glad that you have the last one on there because I always seem to forget.

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  27. You are so right! love this post! Thank you for sharing!

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  28. I really love your blog, such inspiring words
    Thank you for sharing

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  29. Totally agree! Great post! :)

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  31. So true! I agree with all what you said!

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  32. True that! Some wonderful thoughts compiled here.

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  33. Great post, dear! ^-^

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  34. This post is very inspirational. Thanks for sharing!
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  35. love these beautiful quotes <3 so inspiring, thanks for the good vibes :)

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  37. Lovely post! These quotes are so real! :)

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  38. Lovely post! These quotes are so real! :)

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  40. I totally agree with your reflections, especially the one about that we're doing much better than we think.

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  41. This is very inspiring and I totally agree with you. Only yourself can change for yourself.

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  42. Great read and very inspiring.Thanks for this.

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  43. Sauniya this is wonderful, great advice and very inspirational.
    I love the way you write.
    by the way, thank you so much for visiting my blog, I really appreciate it.

    Have a lovely day doll,
    Johanna ❤

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  44. I really needed to read this post today...all that's said is on point, it's hard not to let go, well actually let me rephrase that and speak for myself, I'm all about doing anything I can to not get bitter as that will block my creativity, but it's hard, it's like I have to force my mind to constantly frog march the dark thoughts out...anyhoo, Happy Friday and thanks for the comment you left on my blog (:

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  45. I truly enjoyed your post :) Have a great weekend!

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  46. You make some great points, particularly not being able to change people, as well as accepting that not everything happens as we plan it to - wise words!

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  47. Great post!
    xx

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  48. All of these lessons are so important! Especially the one about changing people. Only when a person wants to change it will happen :)

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  50. Good reflexions! The first made me laugh! haha
    HAPPY WEEKEND
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  52. these are so true. Nothing turns out the way we planned

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    How about we follow each other on bloglovin'? Follow me and I'll follow you back.
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  56. Such amazing post dear! Love the advices!! :)

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    1. Thank you Mihaela, hope you too :)
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