Few things I've Learned...
You can't change people.
If does not matter how much you care about them or how much you want them to be better.
Trying to change some's behavior is like trying to workout so they can lose the weight.. It will never happen unless they actually want to change and are willing to make some effort for it. You can guide them, support them, be there for them, but you can not do the work for them.
The best thing you can do is give them some space and be there for them when they need you.
You have to let go to be free.
People will hurt you.. some even consciously. You'll be the best person you can and life will still be unfair at times. The best thing you can do for yourself in these times is let go. because holding on and spending endless time reminiscing and trying to understand would only feed the pain. The more you think about something, the bigger it becomes and the more it affects your life.
Nothing quite happens the way we plan.
They say sometimes you have to fall before you can fly. Those moments will challenge your strength and sometimes maybe even make you doubt yourself, but when you feel like giving up remember why you started. Don' think about how hard the moment is, but focus on the lessons you can get.
You're doing much better than you think.
Take a moment to appreciate everything that you have and all that you are. Be proud of how far you've come and everything you have accomplished. Always be Grateful.
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About the Author
Hi, I'm Sauniya,
Unconventional but not rebel. I like all things Growth, Self Love, Health, Inner Beauty. You might also find bits of Food, Fashion, Fun and other here and there.
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"Instead of looking at the past, I put myself ahead twenty years and try to look at what I need to do now in order to get there then"